Dear self, it’s okay to have these thoughts, because you’re human Can we stop or must we keep going? Dear self, it’s okay to have these thoughts, because you’re human. The self-talk, the questions, especially the questions. The questions are often tough. Why do you write everyday? When can you stop? Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.