First rule of life We must balance pixie dust with reality – our dreams and hopes with our reality. First rule of life: Life is hard, for everyone, get used to it and find a millions ways to figure it out. __________ This website is about our home health. To leave this site to read today’s post on my mental attitude website, click here. By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.